Showing posts with label Lelaki vs Wanita. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lelaki vs Wanita. Show all posts

Tuesday, 13 October 2009

~ Khasiat Pelukan ~

Tajuk entri neh, panass..lebih hangat daripada biasa.hikhik *gelak gatai*

ini n3 tuk mereka-mereka yang sudah bernikah SAHAJA.
Bagi yang belum bernikah, jangan gatai-gatai ye!!
tapi, bagi yang bakal bernikah, bagus gak baca.
leh la di jadikan amalan harian pas kawen nanti.

info ni mama nak share ngan kawan-kawan yang dah kawen or bakal kawen.
mama tahu, dah ramai yang tahu dan dah ramai yg amalkan.
mmg bagus lah.
info ni dari Dr Fadzilah Kamsah.
selain leh hilangkan or jauhkan penyakit, boleh jugak tuk eratkan hubungan suami-isteri.

Bukti keberkesanan amalan neh, tak pulak mama tahu.
Tapi, bagi pasangan yg dah cuba, atau amalkan sure derang nampak keberkesanannya.
kalo rasa nak kongsi ngan mama pun, boleh saje.


Seorang suami yang memeluk isterinya untuk sekurang-kurangnya 10 saat setiap pagi akan panjang umurnya lima tahun.*tapi,mama kurang pasti apa kebaikan nye bg isteri pulak.mebi sama jugak kot*

Pakar motivasi Datuk Dr. Mohd. Fadzilah Kamsah berkata, fakta berdasarkan kajian oleh seorang pakar di Jerman mengenai hubungan antara sentuhan dan tahap kesihatan.

“Seseorang itu boleh panjang umur jika memeluk isterinya setiap hari kerana pelukan dan sentuhan boleh menyebabkan tubuh manusia mengeluarkan pelbagai hormon termasuk endorfin yang baik untuk kesihatan tubuh.

“Bagaimanapun, sebagai seorang Islam kita tidak harus lupa ajal dan maut terletak di tangan Allah,” katanya ketika memberi syarahan bertajuk Perkahwinan dan Seks: Penawar dan Rawatan Bagi Banyak Penyakit’ di Persidangan Ketiga Perubatan Daripada Perspektif Islam anjuran Pusat Perubatan Universiti Malaya di Hotel Sheraton Subang di sini hari ini.

Hormon endorfin adalah sejenis bahan kimia semula jadi yang bertindak sebagai penahan sakit dan mengurangkan keresahan. Jelasnya, selain mempunyai kesan positif dari segi saintifik dan kesihatan sentuhan, pelukan dan gurau senda antara suami dan isteri juga merupakan sunah Rasulullah s.a.w.

Tambah beliau, ada kajian di Amerika Syarikat (AS) juga mendapati pelukan suami dapat mengurangkan tahap kolesterol dan meningkatkan kesihatan isteri.

“Oleh itu suami yang inginkan isterinya menurunkan berat badan digalakkan peluk isterinya lebih kerap,” katanya disambut dengan gelak ketawa oleh peserta persidangan itu.

*so, tak payahlah gi slimword or mana-mana slimming program ye!!!*

Jelas beliau, hubungan seks dalam penuh rasa kasih sayang juga dapat membantu pasangan untuk awet muda dan berketerampilan menarik.

“Wanita yang mempunyai kehidupan seks yang baik dan bahagia akan lebih cenderung untuk menghiasi diri,” kata Fadzilah.


Macam mama dan papa seniri, memang setiap pagi sebelum gi keje.
mama akan kiss pipi kiri dan kanan dan cium tangan papa.
papa lak, cium pipi kiri dan kanan dan kiss dahi.
pastu kami berpelukan sekejap.

Tapi kan, satu tabiat buruk mama.
Kalo majuk ngan papa, gi keje salam jek, takmo cium or peluk.
nanti sampai opis, rasa nyesal jek.
rasa resah gelisah macam cacing kepanasan.
takot sgt kalo pape jadik pada papa.
takot tak sempat nak peluk papa lagik.
so, salunya, bile papa balik keje jek,terus cium pipi n peluk papa.
pastu, papa akan perli..."tulah, pagi td buat dono jek." hikhik

Macam mama dan papa, kami ni amat susah meluahkan rasa cinta dan sayang.
dari awal kenal sampai dah kawen.
kami susah sangat nak luah rasa cinta.
rasa malu nak cakap "i love you!!".
tatau lah nape.
bukan tak cinta, tapi rasa malu nak luahkan.
so, dengan cara ni la kot, kami luah segala rasa.

tuk bukti leh susutkan badan tu, takde pulak.
mama tengok badan mama sejak kawen, makin menjadi-jadi.
papa pulak makin kuwus melidi.hikhik
agaknya, kesan tuh pada papa kot.ngeh3

okey la, selamat berpeluk!!!

love: mamazahra =)

Saturday, 10 October 2009

~ Kenali Si Dia ~

saja nak share ngn kowang sikit info...
ye lah kan, LELAKI ni makin kita cuba nak faham, makin payah pulak kan...
How to Think Like a Man in Your Relationship
Men have many different thoughts when they are in relationships. Men want companionship, friendship, a lover and someone who can keep up with them intellectually. A relationship will go through many stages, and friendship, warmth, attraction and honesty are must-haves at every stage.
Step 1Communicate openly and honestly.
No buildup, no drama and no excuses. If you want something, ask for it directly. If something is bothering you, say so without a lot of hemming and hawing. Don't overthink situations in your mind and let them build up for weeks and weeks when two or three sentences could have addressed this problem on Day One.
====>terus-terang jek ngn derang neh.derang tak pandai kias-kias.buang masa jek.
Step 2Show an open and adventurous attitude towards sex.
This does not mean that your man wants to set records and see his name in the Guiness Book of World Records, but that you enjoy making love and you are giving and very natural with your body. You are not trying to make any statements but you want to share each other. Most men crave the feelings that go with sex and that includes warmth and security. Many women think men want to validate their masculinity through sex but that is just a small part of it. They can do that with someone who is not relationship-worthy. Think of sexual compatibility as a private journey that the two of you will take for the duration of your relationship.
====>yg ni.no komen lorr...*blushing*
Step 3Accept imperfections in your man.
Nobody likes to be in a relationship where someone is trying to correct them at all times. It is tiresome and men grow tired of hearing all their faults. Open communication is great, but if you are always criticizing and trying to change your partner for the better, your relationship is likely going to be doomed in a short period of time.
====>terima jek la kekeruangan dia.Nobody is PERFECT rite :)
Step 4Demonstrate your independence.
Men like to be in a relationship with someone who has the strength to be on her own financially, emotionally and intellectually. When both partners in a relationship can function as individuals, that's when the relationship has a chance to flower. Neither one is dependent on each other and therefore neither person owes the other. They are both choosing to be there and there are no hidden agendas.
====>selagi boleh buat seniri, cubalah.jgn harapkan dia sesgt.independent katanya.
Step 5Allow your man to get close and stay close.
Many women fear that their relationships will end or get sabotaged at one point or another. So instead of letting the relationship run its course, they sabotage it themselves by not letting the man in at crucial moments. Courage is needed to trust someone. Both parties in the relationship must have it. One partner may very well make mistakes that hurt the other partner, but don't think you can protect yourself and still have a relationship by not letting your partner "in"
====>PERCAYA-MEMPERCAYAI penting sgt loh...tp, jangan 100% percaya.BAHAYA.
Tips and Warnings: Take chances when you have a relationship by showing your man how much you care and don't hide it.
love: mamazahra =)

Kalau SUKA, boleh KLIK eyh!!!