Happy 31st Month my lil sweet Zahra :)

Sabtu lepas, 22-05-2010 Zahra genap 31bulan.

so, maknanya ada lagi 5bulan sebelum Zahra 3tahun.

sekejap jek masa berlalu...aduhaii!

dan..itu bermakna mama hanya ada 5bulan tuk train Zahra free-diaper.

cerita D-F-T zahra aituh, tersekat separuh jalan sebab every wiken ada jek aktiviti yg menyebabkan tak leh nak train Zahra.hahaha [alasan!!!]

wiken ni, mama haruslah start sekali lagi....chaiyok mamazahra!!!

setelah masuk 31bulan, apa perkembangan Zahra?

sebelum tu, meh mama kongsi info dari baby center...

1. Understanding adult rules and standards

Your child now has a basic awareness of your adult standards and behaviour. So don't be surprised when he notices differences -- like when another child is allowed sweets before dinner or when he doesn't have a bath on a particular night. Try to keep most things in his life consistent, and he will be more able to cope with these sorts of changes if you explain things to him.

[ Zahra mmg dah paham setiap arahan.so, mudahlah mama nak mintak tolong sesuatu.hehehe.selain tu, Zahra dah faham kebiasaan yg salu dia buat dgn ibudia akan buat.cthnya: kalo ibu nak bukakkan baju Zahra, ibu akan suh mula dgn tangan &kaki kiri, so bile dia bukak ngan mama, dia mulakan dgn kiri gak.tp, mama salu lupa,bile mama tarik tgn kanan dia dulu, zahra akan ckp "kiyi lulu ah maaa"...hikhik.itu bermakna mama kena ajar zahra buat sesuatu yg menjadi kebiasaan dia, biar dia cepat belajar.hehehe.take note, mama!!!]

2. Alters speech according to listener

As your child's awareness of other people continues to develop, he'll begin to alter his speech depending on who he's talking to. He'll begin to use different words and tones of voice with peers or adults. And you may even notice that with a younger child, he uses simpler language.

[part yg ni mmg terbukti.dia akan cakap a bit kasaw dgn budak2 sebaya dia dan cakap lebih slow & steady bile bercakap dgn mama,papa, ibu,ayah & nenek.part yg mama paling tak sookeee, zahra suka menjerit bile "orang yg kurang biasa" dgn dia bertanya itu ini kt dia.dia jawab dgn marah.tatau cane nak bagitau dah.smp tahap penah pukul (pelan2) mulut dia, bile dia menjerit kat nek&tok belah papa.haish!]

3. Telling fibs

For preschool children, the line between reality and fantasy is still blurred. Your child might say that he didn't scribble on the wall because he wishes he hadn't -- not because he's deliberately lying. Encourage him to tell you what happened without seeming angry or frustrated, and explain that lying is worse than anything he might have done. Make it less scary for him to tell the truth, and you'll help nip his fibbing in the bud.

[yang ni tak bape perasan.yg pasti, bile Zahra salu buat salah,dia akan mengaku, tak penah pulak dia bohong.cthnya: kalau Zahra tumpahkan air atas lantai.bile mama tanya "sape buat???".zahra jawab,  "dhia atau zaya"]

4. Handling questions about sex

About now you might begin fielding some hard questions about how babies are made. Skip all the metaphors and euphemisms, and say it straight. The question "Where do babies come from?" might warrant a response like "Most babies are born through a mother's vagina." There's no need to go into great detail at this age. The more complicated you get, the more likely you are to confuse or frighten your child.

[yang ni mama lom penah buat lagik.hadui, cane lah nak explain eyh???hehehe.hope mama mampu harungi detik2 membesarkan Zahra dgn jayanya (^_^) ]

Sekejap jek masa berlalu kan?

Rasanya, baru semalam celebr8 zahra nye 30th month beday, skang dah masuk 31st month.hmmm...

dah janji nak beli slide tuk Zahra.dia request masa we ol ronda2 kt Giant last week.

agak2, patut ke mama beli?tak rasa membazir ke?

kalo bleh, mama takmo manjakan Zahra dgn toys....tengoklah nanti cane...

D-F-T zahra mmg kena teruskan, mama target, sebelum Zahra celebr8 36month birthday nak setel sume tuh...insyaAllah

love: mamazahra ^__^