Monday 25 January 2010

Happy 27mos Belated Birthday Nur Dhia Zahra

Sorrylah, lambat sikit update pasal perkembangan Zahra bile masuk 27bulan neh...
22-01-2010, jam 5.05pm genap anak dara mama 27bulan.
macam tak percaya je.
Alhamdulillah, mama dapat tengok setiap perkembangan Zahra.
mama perasan, setiap kali Zahra beralih bulan, mesti Zahra demam.
mak mama selalu cakap, " budak nak beralih bulan, memang demam, nak pandai lah tu.."
dan, amma percaya kata-kata nenek Zahra tu..
memang setiap kali Zahra beralih bulan, Zahra demam dan Zahra mesti tunjukkan satu perubahan yang positive dan kadang-kadang negative.
tapi, mama percaya Zahra masih dalam proses pembelajaran.
tuk tahu, tahap perkembangan Zahra, mama memang joined parenting website neh, http://www.babycenter.com.my/
mama dapat tahu pasal website ni dari majalah Pa&Ma.
sejak Zahra kecik, memang mama baca tentang perkembangan kanak-kanak sebaya Zahra kat website tu.
ada forum gak, leh bertukar cerita tentang anak-anak.
kat situ gak la mama selalu bandingkan perkembangan Zahra dengan anak-anak lain.
jom, kita share!!!Your toddler's development (27 to 28 months)
Physical development
Your child now probably handles small objects with ease. He can stack blocks, knock over towers, pull off his shoes, turn book pages, and hold a cup with one hand. He might even be able to balance on one foot for a second or take a big jump forward with his feet together.
* macam Zahra, dia dah boleh pasang lego/stack blocks yang Aunty Ejan hadiahkan dan boleh buat macam apa yang kita suruh.cuma masih belum boleh susun ikut warna.
* Zahra dan pandai pakai dan bukak kasut sendiri
* Zahra dah boleh pegang cawan dengan sebelah tangan, especially gelas plastik. tapi, kalau pegang gelas kaca, mama selalu suruh dia pegang dua belah tangan sebab takut terlepas
* tapi, mama lom try lagi, samada Zahra boleh ke tak berdiri sebelah kaki.. neh [balik nanti, nak cubalah]
Controlling impulses and negative behaviour
Your child is slowly developing the ability to control his actions -- but at this age, he's still prone to a fair amount of pushing, shoving, yelling and tantrums. You can't expect perfect behaviour from him all the time. Keep reminding him in positive ways that talking gets better results than physical action -- and make sure you praise him when he makes an effort to communicate with words.

* mama perasan, setiap kali mama puji dia bile Zahra mampu buat sesuatu yang mama arahkan, Zahra akan clapped hand.Bangga ar tuh...hahaha
* Zahra suka mengamuk, guling-guling kat lantai or nangis non-stop selagi pujukan lom mengena.

Making rules make sense
Helping your child understand the "why" of rules will make it easier for him to follow them. Explain that we do some things to stay safe -- such as holding hands while crossing the street and wearing shoes outside. Keep your rules reasonable, clear and consistent, and be patient while he learns to follow them. Most children will need a lot of gentle reminders.
* Part ni, memang menguji kesabaran mama.susah nak pahamkan Zahra setiap apa yang kita larang dia buat memang bersebab. Cthnya, mama larang dia main kat tangga.banyak kali mama bagitau, kalo maian kat tangga, nanti jatuh.tapi, Zahra tetap nak main gak.

Intense concentration
Your child's attention span is lengthening, and sometimes he'll be so absorbed in his play that he'll resent your interruption. You can make transitions easier by warning him in advance, as in "You can play with the blocks for five more minutes, but then it's dinner time." When you can, be flexible with your timing. And keep in mind that some children might need a couple of warnings to ease their transition away from play.
p/s: setiap kanak-kanak perkembangan diorang laian-lain.so, janganlah susah hati ye!!! yang penting, masih dalam kelompok anak-anak sihat. so, kalau rasa, anak kita slow sikit dari anak lain yang sebaya, janganlah bersedih hati..Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal...

love: mamazahra

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